So Mr. Mint Undies is so far not a total douche bag!
This also confirms that I am not just a magnet for dickfaced, loser panzies with small weiners but that I can indeed attract a decent man from time to time. Yay me!
After our first encounter a couple of Saturdays ago we arranged to meet up this past Wednesday for a movie and a bottle of wine. How darling! Upon entering my apartment he presents me with the wine aaaand….. a cupcake. Yes. that’s right. A cupcake. Adorable? I think so. He tells me we’re watching Coriolanus. (Now either he knew of my obsession with Shakespearean language or he didn’t – but if he didn’t then he’s just that good). Furthermore, he reveals that this flick has Gerard Butler in it. Instantaneous orgasm. I am really starting to like this guy – Mint Undies I mean – not Gerard Butler – although if Gerard Butler were presented before me I probably wouldn’t be able to resist. Anyway – back to the point of the story…
The movie was interesting but let’s face it … wine + a cute guy = makeout! Oh yeah – we went there and it was awesome.
But…..here’s the thing.
What are the rules?
It was only our second date and already we were hot n’ heavy. I probably should have established ground rules but I had no idea any of this was coming! As a result, I entered panic mode and a million thoughts started to rush through my head – is making out acceptable on the second date? If not it was too late for that. So what is acceptable? What’s not acceptable and on what date should it be acceptable? (For the men: welcome to the mind of a woman).
Now, maybe Mint Undies was only interested in the cookie within my pantalon but truthfully, I really didn’t get that vibe from him. He seemed legit. At the same time I was also fearing thine own self. In the throws of passion I tend to lose every ounce of wit that I have and end up doing things that I regret within a matter of hours. The entire time my brain was battling my heart in terms of what to do.
But oh how I loved being kissed by someone who was actually good at it. The kind of kiss that sends pins and needles throughout your body. Needless to say, my brain won this round. I did the ol’ push the hand away technique and settled with just the makeout. *sigh* However, Mint Undies did not disappoint. He respected the fact that he wasn’t gettin’ any cookie anytime soon and we managed to control the urges for the remainder of the movie.
It was a good night. No…it was a great night. Simple yet fun. Sexy yet 18+.
It was only the second date but I can’t help but wonder . . . . . . . .
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haha! I like like like your comment.
Thank you.
Guy is not afraid to make a move, but has self-control and respects your boundaries.
And props on the cupcake. I’m totally stealing that idea.
love this comment! (and the cupcake – which I devoured on the spot – was absolutely delicious!)
I’m looking forward to the next post about min undies man
haha, thank you!
I think this sounds like it’s going very well! A make-out on a second date is nothing to stress about. I made out with a girl I barely knew on our 1st date once and we dated two years. Don’t stress, don’t make unnecessary rules, and just keep things going in a way that you are comfortable with. Good luck!
Excellent points which I will greatly consider (as I have been known to stress and make unnecessary rules!). Thanks for the comment and the follow. *Fingers crossed!
You’re an adult, just do what you want and try not to think so much, difficult as that is for a woman. Sounds like a good time, I envy you.
Nice post. Interesting how the second date was at your apartment. That, in and of itself will lead any woman to temptation if the guy is hot. I typically avoid inviting men into my intimate space until I know them. Just a loose rule for myself. I also tend to overthink in certain situations though.
Thanks for the comment!
Typically I would have advised against my apartment but at the same time, I felt entirely at ease with the idea. However, I will say that inviting any man in to your apartment can also suggest that “other things” will occur and if one is not accepting of this possibility then one must not invite the other in.
Over thinking things – totally a woman thing. I think we all have the ability to over think.